Our Nation is broken, falling apart, crumbling. Our government is corrupting into a monstrous
mess of unprincipled and dishonest actions and choices. The morality of our society is declining
rapidly, with such intensity that almost all of the modesty, propriety and
decorum which defines a civil and refined society, are being dashed to pieces
by that which is vulgar, base, and carnal.
We face all around us a Nation full of broken individuals; we see hurt,
sorrow, heartache, loneliness; we see individuals with wounds gaping so deep
and so severe that despair becomes all-encompassing with no hope of curing or
healing these terrible wounds. Why? Why is there so much pain and suffering? Why is our moral compass completely falling
apart? What is it that we are missing?
Family. The Family is being destroyed. Our Nation has sunk into a popular culture1 which is destroying the very
foundation upon which a free and productive society is built2 .
How can “we the People”3 stand
strong and firm upon a foundation that is crumbling to dust and being swept
from underneath our feet? The Family is
the most basic, fundamental unit of society.4 It is the unit which all other units in
society are built upon. Pope John Paul
II said, “As the family goes, so goes the nation, and so goes the whole world
in which we live.” A strong and healthy
family unit is the best place for individuals to find true joy; it creates the
best environment to teach and to learn, to love and be loved. The Ideal family unit – a man and a woman
committed to each other through marriage and to their children through
sacrifice – sacrificing to stay together, sacrificing to bring children into
their family and sacrificing to rear and nurture those children5. This unit produces well-rounded,
morally strong, principled people and contributing members of society. The success of other organizations in society
– such as businesses, schools, communities, local and federal governments – are
all dependent upon such people who have been raised in a family that taught
them to be honest and hard-working, to love and serve neighbors, to be fiscally
responsible and to obey the laws of the land6. Of course, this is best accomplished in an
ideal family, but it is completely understood that, “disability, death, or
other circumstances may necessitate individual adaptation.”7
However,
instead of our Nation being strong, because its foundation of families is firm
and fortified, our great Nation has been severely weakened by a
Popular Culture of ever-shifting morals and values;8
a Culture that has forsaken the Almighty God; a Culture that focuses primarily
on selfish individualism;9 a Culture that is destroying families. We see evidences of the trail of slime and
filth that follows wherever this Popular Culture of our day leads. The most blatant example is in the messages of
the media as we see seductive, saucy, socially-aggressive women10 slink across the TV and
movie screens and even popular magazines11
in attempts to convey the message that looks are everything, that “it's
my body, I can do what I want,” that marriage is inconvenient, and children are
obstacles and stumbling blocks in the way of self-glamorizing fulfillment.
These
Popular messages are aimed most powerfully at young women12, because young women are the future
mothers and wives, the critical keystone for creating successful families, the
future bearers and nurturers of life and family. This Anti-family Culture submerses us in
messages of selfish individualism13,
calling good evil and evil good.14 Instead of being viewed as the Noble calling
that it is, this popular culture deems Motherhood to be burdensome, tiring,
dirty and essentially a bad decision that should be shunned. While on the other hand, the vulgar and
murderous act of abortion is esteemed to be liberating and good, even an
essential that should be embraced. Pope
John Paul II also said, “The first and most fundamental of all human rights is
the right to life, and when this right is denied, all other rights are
threatened....A society will be judged upon the basis of how it treats its
weakest members; and among the most vulnerable are surely [those] unborn.” This selfishness that is so celebrated in our
popular culture is not only killing our unborn children but killing the very
sanctity and sacredness of life in our great Nation. It is creating a generation of women, future
mothers, who are being deceived into selfishly sacrificing their
unborn-children on the Alter of Vanity, to the Idol of Superficial
Materialism.
I would submit to you that the power and
influence that this popular Anti-Children15,
Anti-Family Culture has over our society and Nation is incurring the indignation
and wrath of God16, and that the further
disintegration of the family will undoubtedly bring upon our Nation great
calamities17 from the Sword of
Justice18 that is swinging over the head and
body of our Nation.
Throughout
all the History of the world, there has never been a greater need to heal and
protect this divine institution of the Family than there is now. Our Nation is calling and pleading for a
generation of healers to rebuild, to defend against the destroying messages of
the Popular Culture, to protect at all costs this sacred Family unit. Great is the task, and great is the call,
but I believe that even greater is the generation that will rise to the
occasion and accept the call to duty that beckons so earnestly to be honored by
a faithful generation. The family is the
most basic, fundamental unit of society, and we need a valiant generation of
virtuous young women and young men who know19,
and who are committed to living their divine roles of Motherhood and
Fatherhood, of Husband and Wife, lawfully wedded, willing to welcome and
nurture children in their homes20. Our Nation is calling for a generation of
warriors who know21 and
understand the sanctity of life22, and
who will step up to the front of the battle lines with that understanding,
and engage in the persuasion of defending the unborn and their right to life,
liberty and the pursuit of happiness23. A generation of young women properly prepared
in the art of motherhood to teach, to heal and to defend families from the
influences of the distorting and destructive messages of sleazy popular
culture; and a generation of young men valiantly armed to provide for and
protect families against any plague24,
any weapon, and any culture that could cause harm to vulnerable families.
Our Broken
Nation has sounded its call. Who will
answer? Will you? When we Heal Families, we will truly Heal our
Nation.
1. See M. Russel Ballard, “Women of Righteousness,” Ensign,
April 2002, 66-73.
2. See Julie B. Beck, “Teaching the Doctrine of the Family,”
Seminaries and Institutes of Religion Satellite Broadcast, Aug. 4, 2009, page
5.
3. The Constitution, preamble.
4. See, “The Family: A Proclamation to the World,” Ensign,
Nov. 1995, 102.
5. See “The Family: A Proclamation to the World.”
6. See “The Family: A Proclamation to the World.”
7. “The Family: A Proclamation to the World.”
8. See Gordon B. Hinckley, “Stand Strong against the Wiles of
the World,” Nov. 1995 Ensign.
9. See Spencer W. Kimball, "Families Can Be
Eternal", Ensign, Nov. 1980, 4.
10. See Ballard, “Women of Righteousness.”
11. See M. Russel Ballard, “Mothers and Daughters,” Ensign,
May 2010, 18-21
12. See Beck, “Teaching the Doctrine of the Family,” page 5-6.
13. See Dallin H. Oaks, “Unselfish Service,” Ensign, May
2009.
14. See 2 Nephi 15:20.
15. See Beck, “Teaching the Doctrine of the Family,” page 6.
16. See D&C 101:10-11; section 29, especially verse 17;
section 43, especially verse 26
17. See “The Family: A Proclamation to the World.”
18. See Alma 60:29; Helaman 13:5-6
19. Julie B. Beck, “Mothers Who Know,” Ensign, Nov.
2007, 76-78
20. See “The Family: A Proclamation to the World.”
21. See Beck, “Mothers Who Know.”
22. See “The Family: A Proclamation to the World.”
23. See
The Declaration of independence.
24. See Jeffry R. Holland, “Place No More for the Enemy of My
Soul,” Ensign, May 2010, 44-46.